We all have our own ideas about what it means to pray to
God, and how to do it. But as followers of Jesus, we should be looking towards
him and his words for guidance, and when we do, we might be surprised what he
has to say.
"And when you pray, you must not be like the
hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street
corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have
received their reward. (Note: the Greek word here for “reward” means “wages.”)
“But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and
pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will
reward you. And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do,
for they think that they will be heard for their many words.”
“Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need
before you ask him. Pray then like this: "Our Father in heaven, hallowed
be your name. Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in
heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also
have forgiven our debtors.” (Matt. 6:5-12)
Jesus clearly spells out a few things we must bear in mind
when praying:
1. We should not be praying in public – in church gatherings
or street corners – in order to be seen
as pious.
2. We should pray in secret. The words for “room” (elsewhere
“closet”) means a secret storeroom where people of his time would go to be in
private. Where better to seek the infinite storeroom of God’s spiritual
strength!
3. We must not heap up many empty phrases because we think
God hears us better when we use a lot of words.
4. God knows what we need before we ask.
5. Jesus gives us a simple prayer by which we can express
our gratitude to God and our acknowledgement of Him.
Many Christians want God to be our magic genie, our butler
and our doorman, and He cannot be any of these. And even as Jesus consistently
preached that we should desire spiritual things and not earthly treasures
(Matt. 6:19-20; Luke 12:33) many Christians pray to God for new cars, more
money, a promotion and for an end to sickness and pain. That’s witchcraft, not faith
in God.
We should be seeking God’s help to overcome adversity, endure
suffering, avoid temptation, and grow stronger from all that the world sends
our way, and speak to God about all things and all of our troubles and
concerns.
But asking for cold hard cash (or a new car, or a raise, or
a companion of the opposite sex) from the Creator of the Universe is 180
degrees from what Jesus taught us to do.
He also said God already knows what we need, so we should
not raise up endless words to God, as the pagans do. That seems to be good
"advice" from our Master, Jesus, doesn't it?
So, bearing in mind that Jesus repeatedly tells us to seek
spiritual things, and not material things, and that the poor will be, and are,
blessed, and that the rich will find it extremely difficult to inherit eternal
life with God, why would we spend time praying for riches?
Why, indeed, would we pray for ourselves, our own material
needs, or our own self-gratification, when Jesus says God doesn't favor any of
us in particular?
Why would we send up words of petition to God demanding
material goods, when we know that is not what God sends?
Why pray for special, material, favors, when we know God shows
no partiality and cannot be bribed with our words (Deut. 10:17) and that it rains both on the just and the unjust (Matt. 5:45)?
Why pray that Nature obey our whims, when we know that God
isn’t in the storms or natural disasters (1 King 19:11-12) but in the caring
and loving response to them when we are damaged by them?
Why send up many, many vain and repetitious prayers when
Jesus tells us God does not listen to them?
To seek ANY material things that will rust and become moth-eaten
from our Creator seems to make God very small and petty. Lucky for us, God isn't
a Genie, or a magician, or our personal doorman, holding open or slamming shut
doors on a whim, known only to Him.
And to make God into a master manipulator or puppet master
makes this life meaningless and pointless. God granted us the freedom to do
good or to turn our backs on Him and do evil.
When King David prayed to God, he prayed seeking to be
renewed and for his soul to be restored (Psalm 23:3) and acknowledged that it
was God Who would lead him towards righteousness. This is just as it should be.
Through Jesus, the one God has anointed as His Son and
Prophet, we know that God wishes us to seek Him in prayer for spiritual, not
material, things. Let us pray with honor and respect to the One Who created us
and has the ability to give us all the spiritual help we need from his vast spiritual storehouse.